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The Problem With the “Stubborn” Label
We’ve all been there, standing in the park, lead in hand, calling our dog’s name and getting absolutely nothing back. It’s tempting to mutter “He’s being stubborn.” An easy label to through at something for human gratification. Looking at behaviour science and veterinary research, that label does more harm than good. Dogs aren’t plotting ways to defy us, they’re reacting to their environment, their physical condition, and the clarity (or lack) of our cues (Bradshaw & Casey, 2007).
By swapping judgment for curiosity, we can turn those moments of “defiance” into breakthroughs in understanding. Here is a pivotal moment to stop, look, listen and ask, what is really behind it?
Behavioural Science: What’s Really Behind “I Won’t”
Dogs don’t disobey out of spite, they respond based on learning history, motivation, and emotional state.
From a scientific perspective, dogs are learning machines. They respond to reinforcement patterns, environmental context, and their own mental state, not moral codes.
- Confusion from unclear cues Dogs learn through associative learning, plus both classical and operant conditioning. If you sometimes say “come” and other times “here”, your dog may not connect both to the same behaviour. Similarly, a dog who “sits” at home but not in the park hasn’t yet generalised the skill (McGreevy & Boakes, 2007).
- Frustration & emotional arousal Repeated failure to earn a reward can cause frustration. Once this sets in, focus drops, and your dog’s priority becomes relieving that emotional pressure, through sniffing, disengaging, or walking off.
- Low motivation & competing reinforcers Your dry biscuit reward may pale in comparison to the smell of a rabbit in the hedge. Training works best when rewards match the challenge (Rooney & Cowan, 2011).
Veterinary Insights: When “No” Means “I Can’t”
Rule out pain before labelling a dog “stubborn.”
Sometimes, the issue isn’t willingness, it’s physical inability.
- Pain & musculoskeletal issues Arthritis, hip dysplasia, cruciate injuries, and spinal problems can make sitting, lying, or jumping painful (Kapatkin et al., 2006).
- Hormonal adolescence Dogs aged 6–18 months go through a “teenage” phase marked by hormonal shifts and reduced impulse control (Starling et al., 2013).
- Sensory decline Older dogs may miss cues due to hearing or vision loss.
Other Factors That Masquerade as Stubbornness
- Fear/anxiety – Overwhelming environments can shut down responsiveness.
- Cognitive fatigue – Long or repetitive sessions exhaust focus.
- Environmental distractions – Wildlife scents, other dogs, or noises steal attention.
- Negative past experiences – If a cue has been linked to punishment, avoidance is likely.
Owner Training Handout: Decoding “Stubborn”
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If your dog seems “stubborn,” check these possible causes before assuming defiance.

What the Evidence Says
The research is consistent: stubbornness is not a fixed canine trait. It’s a placeholder humans use when we haven’t yet identified the real reason for a behaviour. That reason may be communication gaps, physical challenges, developmental phases, or emotional states and once we identify it, we can address it compassionately.
From Frustration to Understanding
When we replace “stubborn” with “something’s getting in the way,” our approach to training changes completely. We become problem-solvers, not judges. The payoff? A stronger bond, more effective training, and a happier, healthier dog.
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Misinterpretations of canine communication. |
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Learning theory and cue confusion. |
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Reward value and training success. |
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Pain-related movement avoidance. |
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Hormonal adolescence effects. |


